Shame, Part 1: The Devil Inside
“Which is the most universal human characteristic: Fear or laziness?” Waking Life, Richard Linklater, 2001 Throughout my life, I’ve been accused by certain relatives of laziness. They may well be right. I have a tendency to procrastinate, to choose comfort over exertion. But in my mind, the answer to the above question is, unequivocally, fear. In my mind, all laziness stems from fear, and in my case, fear of failure due to fear of rejection. As a lifelong would-be perfectionist raised by would-be perfectionists, I don’t believe my disability is autism or ADHD (that’s another post for another time). In fact, I would boldly argue that fear is perhaps the most debilitating disease in all of humanity. It's what keeps us stuck at square one over and over, forever in the first stage of the Fool's journey. The above image is the Fool Card from the Modern Witch Tarot deck (Lisa Sterle, 2019). As we can see, t he Fool isn’t consumed with worry. (If anything, she needs to open